Being Safe, Being Secure - That's what drives us. We don't like uncertainties, we resist change, we fear uncharted paths & beyond everything - we are apprehensive towards the unusual. We have been conditioned to a pattern - a mold that defines our life journeys. It gives us peace and maintains our sanity. We have worked very hard to achieve this and we can't afford to lose it now. Whatever age and stage of life we are in - we never anticipated uncertainties to an extent that would shake the ground beneath our feet. But it's happening now and we can duck, we can hide or we can run - but sooner or later - we need to face the grim reality and get the bull by its horns. We are strong, we are brave & we possess a warrior mindset. Putting up a fight is not an issue - we can do it fiercely. But what is not required is undue pressure. The pressure to perform, the pressure to succeed, the pressure to overcome all fears. We are facing one of the most unprecedent
It all begins with a commitment. A commitment which makes you believe that no matter how tough the terrain would be; you would surpass all difficulties with a belief that what lies at the end would be an eternal bliss. One’s life is as complicated as one wants and can be as simple as one desire. The choice is in our hands. This statement certainly sounds familiar but in our day to day lives how well do we implement the same? Relationships are crux of our lives and it’s something that not many have been able to escape. It makes you happy, makes you sad, causes pain, brings smile…..whatever it does; it certainly adds up to our lives. Herein, the choice isn’t with self but completely dependent on others. What they want to give us is in their hands – hence they are the decision makers. But what lies in our control is that do we wish to be at the takers end? Sometimes it’s uncontrollable but again it’s the mind or heart that gives up. Whether willingly or unwillingly we tend to surrend